Yesterday Min Min added/invited me to a group on facebook called "Ministerial Spouses - Seventh-day Adventist (Shepherdess International)".
It was nice to read through the posts and read the experiences of different pastor's wives around the world.
I've been married to Bayu for almost 5 years now. And yes, I've also been a Pastor's Wife for almost 5 years.
I still remember I resisted the whole being a shperdess thing. But little by little, with much prayer and support from Bayu. Meeting other PWs here I have come to accept and enjoy being in the ministry in this role.
One main reason for embracing my new life as a Pastor's Wife was the affect it has on Bayu. My attitude and my reaction affects who he is and what he does. So I am happy to be where I am and doing what I do because it affects Bayu positively and also because I want to serve my God.